"Love is a waiting game"

"Baby I’m thinking it over.  What if the way we started made it something cursed from the start. What if it only gets colder? Would you still wrap me up and tell me that you think this was smart? Cause lately I've been scared of even thinking ’bout where we are." This is a line from Banks song "Waiting Game." It's a song I've had on repeat lately and wanted to apply into some thought and write form. That line describes the feelings and uncertainties someone has about with pursuing a certain love relationship.  But this seems to be the nature of love from time to time. How would you reassure yourself of certainty of someone's love for you if you didn't question their true intention when the relationship seems to be on the brink? If you didn't ask and search for their true intentions you would be simply left uncertain and be never able to give unto their love. Understanding this conflict of interest and working it out is key to unlocking the nature of true love. We are all human and it's are imperfections and mistakes that make us such. Its in the nature of all humankind's soul.  So could our imperfections be a reason why love is so hard sometimes? You better believe it. Were bound to be blind to our imperfections from time to time, but it is are duty in the good fight for love to come to realize them, ask for forgiveness and to put them behind you so they never have to be dealt with again. If you do this you can grow from your mistakes, become wiser and closer to the true love were all searching for. Were all born good hearted being's, but the reality were born into is full of temptation to try and drive us away from love. It's the conceptual illustration of the red apple and the story of Adam and Eve. It isn't always easy, but our hearts can be taught life lessons by sometimes having to learn the hard way. However, once we've let our hearts learn its lesson that it needed to be taught we can discover its true desire. This is the necessity both hearts must be aware of before two hearts can share true love. Sometimes in relationships we break hearts by having to find out this hard lesson and we can push another heart away from its own desire. If this happens the only way for two hearts to heal together is to keep your hearts desire open and allow the other heart to learn your's heart desire in time. It's love's waiting game of truly understanding each others heart. In the search for true love we can not force desire, but we can keep our's open to the one it wants and in time both can be rest assured by the commitment for one another. It is the committing of desire to ultimately know and love someone. So if you know your heart's desire allow it to prove its commitment not with force, but open arms. For force will only hurt, but the patience of a waiting heart will only shine it's kindness. Love is a waiting game.